Discussion : The Girl Thing

Honesty is the best Policy..

but dont u think that too honest would be no fun?
check this out bout girls..
i mean, i dont discriminate girls, coz im one of 'em? =.=''
anyway, here are 25 things that are unfortunately quite true to some girls..
specially dedicated for those who are single.. lol
(dont look at all of them silly, just look at the bold ones, and see which u are interested in..
u'll waste a lot of time by reading all of 'em.. hahax!!)

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1. When it comes to finding a guy, it’s all about looks to most girls. Looks do fade, the more you get to know someone, the more attractive they become anyway. Yes, there needs to be attraction, but some people go way too far, like girls who demand tall guys (you shouldn't demand a guy be any taller than you). Yes many guys seek looks too, but those are the guys who just want ass. Personally, I think thick girls are more attractive than girls who look like barbie dolls.
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2. The reason girls treat nice guys like crap is simply because nice guys won’t talk back. A girl will never mouth off a jerk, because he'll make her cry. Girls are turning nice guys into jerks everyday, what guy wants to be nice when he gets treated like dirt? I've never met a guy who enjoys being a jerk, they just have no other choice, lol.
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3. Girls really don’t know what they’re doing. Almost every guy has been on at least 5 great dates with a girl, then never heard from her after (this is why many guys want to go 'dutch'). Seriously, if you don’t know what you're doing, why bother? All you're doing is frustrating a great guy. Finding great guys isn’t easy (and you know that, because if it was, you'd have one by now lol), so when you find one, keep him!
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4. Girls are way too superficial. They watch soap operas and love movies, and think they’re honestly going to find that in real life. Then once something goes wrong, it's the females who run (and females do call for the majority of divorces.) Relationships aren’t easy, they do have issues and bored/down times. Relationships are usually fun for the first month or two, but it doesn't stay that way lol.
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5. Girls love drama and games (especially 'hard to get' which guys hate. I know some people say making guys wait is a good thing, but trust me, its not!). To them, this whole dating thing is a game. It's all about telling her what she wants to hear word for word, and doing things the same way they saw it in the movie. You can’t talk about sex, your ex's, religion, politics, world events, make jokes, etc. If two people are going to date, they should be able to talk about anything together.
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6. Ok, many girls say that guys are just as bad, and it’s sort of true, but there’s a difference! Most guys don’t sit around claiming they want commitment (girls do lol), so when girls do dumb things, its worse. Guys definitely do dumb things too, but the thing is, guys aren't the ones being cheated on, used, heartbroken all the time (girls are). If a guy gets hurt, he usually walks away; girls though, insist on staying around thinking he'll change when I promise you he won't.
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7. Were you and your best friend, best friends right away? First dates are supposed to be weird and awkward; you're hanging out with someone you barely know! Give people a chance; we all make mistakes, have flaws and baggage (though there's a fine line between a flaw, and pure ignorance). A deaf girl or girl on crutches can be attractive, but not a girl puking all night to excessive drinking.
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8. In relationships, you have to compromise, and give and receive. Relationships aren’t one-way streets. Also, many people don’t know this, but men need more affirmation than women do. Women constantly get flattery from peers, men don’t, that’s why men need it from their partners. Even when you're interested in a guy, give him some affirmation.
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9. Some women like to wait for the guy to make the moves and send the messages. No, if you like him, send him a message or make a move before someone else does (guys do like a girl who will make moves). Nobody is a good mind reader, so don’t get upset because you hinted at wanting to do something but he didn’t do it.
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10. Girls are too difficult and complicated. They expect too much out of life, people, and just about everything. Guys are the most simple people in the world; they can sit around all day watching TV together and still call each other the next day, but girls? You'll never hear from her after the first day if you do that, lol. You know what it takes to please a man? Food and sexuality. But girls, they want everything. And honestly, no good guy is going to take you out everyday or spoil you. The world isn’t going anywhere, ladies. And stop saying 'life's too short', lol life is the longest thing you have!
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11. Posting dirty pics on your profiles, or saying things like 'I like to have fun!' (really?! Lol), posting pics of you and your friends partying is only scaring away good guys. Girls have this weird mindset that life is a complete joke (then once something goes wrong, they all freak out and don't know what to do lol).
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12. "Girls just wanna have fun", we've all heard that, and it's so true! Girls dont want love, they want fun. And the truth is, 'true love' and 'fun' are two different things, lol. Sure love can be fun, but again, it's not always fun and it does get boring after awhile. Girls aren't in love, they're in love with the 'thought' of being love. Do you want to know how you can tell if you can handle marriage or a long term relationship? It's simple: sit on the couch doing nothing for weeks at a time with your man. See how long you last, lol. I guarantee any guy can last years, but the majority of women wont last a week lol.
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13. Girls say they can’t stand guys who judge, stereotype, are insecure, clingy, negative, dependant, whine, are bitter and dishonest, into drama, etc. Sure nobody wants to hang around a total whiner, but all that stuff is human nature, we all do it. Do you seriously think someone wakes up and decides to be bitter/whiny for nothing? And seriously, girls are far more bitter/whinier than men are, just look at their profiles "omg dont message me if...", lol. You'll date guys who are drunks, druggies, criminals, bad asses, controlling...yet you won’t date a clingy whiny, etc guy? Doesn’t make sense. The reason jerks don’t whine is because they have no reason to, they’re jerks, and still get girls! Truth is, girls will date anyone as long as he's hot lol.
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14. Why is it okay for girls to post skanky pics of themselves, but if a guy posts a picture of his muscles, he’s a jerk? If a girl says bad things about guys, guys just laugh and play along. But if a guy says bad thing about girls, girls get bi tchy and defensive (because they know it’s true). Its okay for girls to be whiny, bitter, dishonest, dramatic, act manly, but it’s not okay for guys to be whiny, bitter, dramatic, or dishonest? Its okay for girls to care and talk about sex, but its not okay for guys? It goes both ways, ladies.
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15. Why date someone when you know you won’t last or when you know they won’t make a good husband or father (relationships arent temporary flings). Mr Bad Ass with the edge may be fun (till he breaks your heart lol), but he wont be so fun in 15 years. But if you insist on going for the same guys who break your heart, then you only have yourself to blame.
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16. Girls love to use words like "chemistry, connection, spark, confidence"...yet they can’t define them lol. If a guy is hot, there's a connection lol. And how can you expect physically unattractive guys to have confidence, when they're constantly being overlooked and rejected for their looks? We all know tons of handsome guys who have no confidence at all, yet get any girl they want.
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17. Guys are not attracted (commitment wise) to wild, party, drunk, or girls who dress like hookers then wonder why every guy is staring at them lol (which only attracts ugly guys, because hot guys can get any girl they want). Sure those girls can get guys, but the ones who just want sex lol. Wild and party people are the most insecure and lame people ever; without all their "friends" and alcohol, they'd be lost, miserable, and not know what to do lol.
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18. The most important rule: The entire world knows girls are far hornier and more perverted than guys are, they just hide it. The second you become a girlfriend, you're the ones who want it all day lol, and if a guy isn’t good at it or doesn’t do it often, she runs (which is ridiculous). Many couples last without happiness or communication, but none last without sex. Sex is making or breaking relationships these days (which it shouldn't). How come girls date guys who treat them like dirt, yet they stay and/or keep coming back? Because he gives her the best sex of her life. All guys know that keeping a girl is all about how good you are in bed, lol. Enough with the "comfort level, world thinking im a whore, std" excuses. Without sex, you wouldn't even look at the other gender.
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19. With that said, the problem is girls, they're dishonest; they hide it, pretend not to care, and make guys work for it, and that frustrates guys. Ladies, it's sex: The most natural, normal thing ever. The one thing everyone alive can agree "is amazing!" How come all over the world everyone is so open about it (and couples last lol) yet here we are so closed minded about it (and here our divorce rate is skyrocket). As long as two people like one another, there's nothing wrong with fooling around. This whole dating thing will continue to be difficult and a game until people start being honest with themselves. And the honest truth is: We all want sex (except people who are waiting til marriage, which I do respect).
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20. A very important thing girls don’t get: Girls want a man? Well, men want a woman! No girl wants a guy who sews, knits, bakes cakes, is a cheerleader and writes poems? (unless he’s hot lol). Well no good guy wants a girl who drinks like a fish, is party wild, is a fight fan or fighter, or talks like a sailor. Sure some guys don’t care, but the good ones do. If you want us to act like men, then you act like women. Seriously, it’s like the biggest turn off to any decent guy.
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21. Remember the first time you got drunk or watched something stupid? Like most people, you didn’t want to but a friend pushed you, and now you like it! It shows like most people, once you make so many friends, you forget about values, morals, common sense (and can’t think for yourself). This is why most guys prefer introverted girls (to commit to), because guys know that girls can’t think for themselves (no guy wants a girl who lets her friends control her life and mind). Like if your friends don’t like your boyfriend, who cares, you're the one dating him, not them! Sadly though, those who can think for themselves and not act fake, tend to end up alone and overlooked. Speaking of friends, you're not approachable when you're around them.
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22. Guys know girls more than girls know themselves. Girls want honesty? No, they want to be told what they want to hear. Girls say they don’t care what anyone thinks. No, girls care too much what others think, and they have major denial issues. Some girls say they don’t want a boyfriend. No, all girls want a BF, the moment some tall hot guy comes along, they suddenly want a BF. Guys can tell just by looking at your profile exactly what kind of girl you are. The funniest part is, in the end most girls are all the same, they say and do the exact same things! Any guy can tell within an hour if he'd date/commit to a girl. Yes, girls are that predictable (there's a reason why many of you have been here forever and still single). For every 1 girl on this site, there are 5 guys. You can't tell me it's that hard for you all, lol.
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23. So you may be thinking, "what girl wants to date a guy who talks sh!t about girls?!” I guess you don’t want any guy then, because all guys do it, just not publicly. See, the more ignorant girls are, the more ass a guy gets, so guys want girls to be ignorant. The only reason a guy would argue this, is because he knows it's all about telling girls what they want to hear. I've never met a guy who read this entire thing (with no girls around), and disagreed with any of it, lol. Guys say different things when just one girl is around, as opposed to when it’s all guys (sadly, girls will believe anything a hot guy tells them lol).
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24. So what do girls really want? A guy who looks like an abercrombie model, has the attitude of a linebacker, the heart of a nice guy, gives her the best sex ever, takes her out all the time, and makes her laugh all the time. Sorry but there is no such thing. Do your parents/grandparents go out and laugh all the time? Do they 'never' argue and 'never' have problems? Don't forget #4 and #12.
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25. What do guys want? The keyword is "simple". If you're simple, uncomplicated, act like a woman, have a brain and can think for yourself, have a heart, naughty side, and you're not superficial, you'll never lose your man (unless he's a jerk who just wants ass). But sadly, that girl is impossible to find.
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i've read all of 'em, and found out that itz kinda true....awkwardly..
not to say that we girls dont wanna improve ourselves, but that's our nature~
lolx!

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